Kinky Dates

Once in a while, the universe will smile on a single man and hook him up with an open-minded and adventurous woman in his dating life. This might be a woman who represses her urges, even looking prim and proper during the day, but who lets her hair out for the evening. Waaay Out!  For this type of lady, you have to take her somewhere crazy, or somewhere to excite her. Here are a few ideas to get your brain in the right mindset to keep a woman like this happy.

Strip Club

If your women has any sorts of bi-sexual tendencies, she will likely jump at the chance to go to a strip bar. I mean, she will likely enjoy the action as much as you! She might even buy you a lap dance, and vise-versa! There are some memories to last a lifetime! Many strippers are bi-sexual, or into threesomes, so if you want to really be out there, you might find that the girl on stage can be persuaded into a menage a trois. 

Sex Toy Shopping

If you’re at the point in your dating relationship with the kinky lady, a great date idea is the adult shop. Relaxing your normal inhibitions a bit by having a couple of drinks before going never hurts. It takes the pressure off, and just makes things a bit more fun. Then you can walk through the aisles and find out what makes her blush. Ask her if there is anything that she is curious about that she might want to try. Tell her what kinds of things that you would like to try. Hold sexy outfits next to her and see how she would look in it. This always help get her into the game. If you approach it right, there is nothing but fun and good times to be had in a sex shop. A word of caution here. Most quality shops are pretty expensive, and there is a no-returns policy on just about everything. Make sure you can bankroll the trip before embarking on it.

Strangers Meeting Role-Play

A fun and kinky date is one in which you pretend to be strangers that meet at the bar, and then you seduce each other using your different persona. Act like you don’t know each other and meet at a hotel bar. Buy her a drink and start chatting her up. Watch the bartender get more and more impressed the more and more she seems to be interested in you. Then, rent one of the rooms in the hotel and get the sheets dirty, if you know what I mean. She can play “Nurse Naughty”, “Sex Teacher”, “Marion the Librarian”, almost anything.

If you are having trouble picking an idea, just write all your ideas down on a list, put it on a dart board and throw a dart to see which one to select. Adds an element of fun to it. But the rule is, whatever the dart selects, you have to do!


S&M Parlor

For a real change of pace, consider Bondage. It requires that you fully trust your partner, and that may actually add to your relationship. Lots of people like the bondage and domination part of it. Saddo is not everyone's cup of tea..  Most regular practitioners are into the bondage side of things rather than the domination or the saddo masochism, so do not let the idea scare you.  In any event, these parlors cater to both experienced people and newbies. Give it a try!



Well, that should get you started. If you do not have a lot of room for costumes, consider renting them. Look around and see if you can find fetish parties, murder mystery parties, or even sex theme hotel rooms. The key is to make it fun, interesting, and above all KINKY!

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Fun Dating Advice for Men